What a doozie of a day! Right before I read this post I had a talk with my mom that has been coming for 40+ years about the abuse in my past. My dad abused me and I talked to her about it tonight for the first time(I'm 54,she's 80). Needless to say it didn't go very well. It is hours later and I'm still sitting here crying.For the most part I've put my past behind me but something triggered those horrible memories of my past when I was with her today. Wouldn't it be nice if we could only remember the good stuff?