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Originally Posted by lynn P.
I see where you're coming from, with this question. You and your sister aren't close and you think if she knows you're friends with her exes wife - she might think you're taking sides and she might think "oh she can't be nice to me, but she can be nice to my exes wife -right?
I really don't see anything wrong with you being friends with her, but I share the mentally of not villainizing the ex. If your sis is the type to be enemies with the ex and wife, then she might be offended. Could you drop her an email, saying something like - "don't take it personal but I just like her as a person and not because she's your exes wife and this has nothing to do with you or your ex". Best of luck Michele.
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I really wish I could do that Lynn. I really believe that my sister needs to really see how her words and actions really hurt people. I think with her it's going to be one of those things where she will need to hit rock bottom before it really has an impact on her seeing things for what they are. My sister LOVES drama. She's one of those people who can't leave well enough alone.
