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it sounds like you're feeling hurt by this. I don't blame you, I'd be feeling bad as well. I'd like to urge you to sleep on this first; you deserve to have your voice heard. If T has been a big presence if your life then believe any changes need to be talked over. And not just told to you in 1 session. Your opinion counts too you know. You know what you need. I can tell by reading your posts on here that you're very insightful, and I think you'd know if you were being overly dependent on him. I really recommend talking about this further.

take care and good luck