What does she want to do? Is she working with a pyschodynamic psychotherapist to help her? She's an adult now and should be supported, but should be the one making the decisions in her life, choosing the direction she wants to go, and having the consequences that come with it.

Getting better is not a linear path. There are forward steps and sideways steps, mis-steps and back steps... but it is all part of the process of moving along. A good therapist helps so much. Changing one's life takes hard work and time.