were.."Restorative Justice"---Meaning: This is what you did, this is how it made me feel. It doesnt' matter what the abuser says, thinks or does about what you say, it only matters what YOU think and say.

It is a way to reclaim your power.

I think when we remain silent and don't confront the abuser (you can do it by mail or with a third party/therapist), that it is a DIS-empowered feeling.

Rarely will an abuser admit to what they did.

Sharon