Thanks Exotic! Funny, I had a dream too. I dreamed that I was late and totally missed a church thing we are doing together this Sunday. I think it is on my mind too. With all the chat here I am getting a little nervous about how risky it is regardless of how much I would like to do.

Like Darkrunner said ... "I guess I am saying that I can see the risks as well as anyone, and if this was before the fact it would be easy to tell Xtree not to get involved in this situation. But now that she is, it's not so easy to figure out what to do about it."

I agree with Darkrunner, the problem is we are both already in too deep. I do not want a new T and neither one of us want to quit the church.

We discussed it a little at our last session. Bounderies inhibit her (and me) so she is not going to be concerned about boundaries while at church or church events. If any issues come up and we should talking about it. Sounds interesting, doesn't it?

Xtree