Hi Xtree,

Did your T actually say she wasn't going to be concerned with her boundaries during church activities? T's need to be concerned about boundaries ALL the time when with a client, especially outside of the office.

My T and I got a big chuckle today out of my dream of me being at her house. I told her next time I shouldn't sleep in so I don't get those dreams. lol ( i was skipping my daily 5K walk) lol But the dream was all about boundaries and me making sure she kept hers. (but it signified my other T relationships) In the dream she had me over to her house for a party. I kept asking her if she was going to put the food back in the fridge and she said no and started to dump all the bowls into the trash. I asked her if she was going to recycle those containers, and she said no. Some reason I had to spend the night. She tried to spoon me(non sexual) and I refused. Plus her bed was lumpy and I didn't sleep well.(she said that can signify something hidden under the surface) Then in the morning she offered me donuts only ( I wanted to eat healthy) and I didn't want one and I asked her if she wanted to go out for breakfast. She said she couldn't because it was unethical. (like spending the night isn't) lol One part I didn't tell her because it is kinda gross, she had staining on the back of her gray sweats from her period. LOL

I told her about your situation and she is very concerned for you. She feels your T has crossed some major boundaries and she hopes you don't go to her house for ANY reason including church.

So how else would you like to inspire my dreams? Can it have a non-T in it who is drop dead gorgeous or something?