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Old Jan 22, 2010, 08:20 AM
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Awww! That would be a flashback situation. I am sorry about what your ex boyfriend did to you. Your dog sounds beautiful. Looking at and being with my dogs always make me feel better as well. Its like they understand you and are always faithful and loyal.

Thanks for your support.

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Keep posting when you need to, it helps a million. want to read something funny.....

talking about triggers and what can make you flashback. I woke up this morning with a shining black eye, a real bruiser, looks like a was hit by Mike Tyson, how did I get it.. well, yesterday my Great Dane dog decided she'd smack her skull bone into my eye brow bone and we went for the clash, I didn't think about it till later when the bruising started to come out, well this morning I look like I've done 10 rounds in the ring, I oddly looked at my face and the trigger was it put me back 20 years to my violent abuse by my exboyfriend who was a boxer incidently and left many a bruised eye on me, so I go to the store with my son and can't help people noticing my black eye, and them forming an opinion as I stood their at the cash register. It was hard for me to look in the mirror today, and see the bruising staring back at me and it was a very triggering moment but then I look at my lovely Great dane and it all slips away, her eyes melted me and I knew she was there for me.