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Old Jan 22, 2010, 01:49 PM
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I agree - next time if you feel you don't want to hear someone talk about it, then by all means, stop them from talking. It's very normal and healthy to express your anger, as long as you're not destructive to yourself. As I mentioned in your other thread, my brother did the same thing and I was very angry at him for doing this to us. I have come to realize, that I won't allow this to burden me. I found it very helpful talking about it here at PC. I also try to inspire other people to live, by sharing my experience, so they won't make their family and friends feel this kind of pain. This was my brothers choice and I won't let it ruin my chance at life. I just want you to know this was a process for me and I went through months of many emotions before I finally reached this place now. Do you have a therapist to talk to? It's very normal to grieve and it takes time but just don't let it take control of you where it beomes unhelathy.
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