i was in the same situation as ur daughter before i knew what i had and my mum sent me away and im now 23 and i will never forgive her for doing that 2me if u hav researched the symptoms they u will know abandonment is on ther n this is exactly what she will be feeling x im sorry if im being harsh im not saying u did the wrong thing by sending her away because i dont know the situation at the time n im sure u did what was best n tryed hard 2 deal with her. i know from my mum and what i watched her go through and it was all because of me i hated it. but i think she should be at home with her mum of her sake thats what every girl wants n needs but especialy in her situation she graves it more. sorry but thats my opinion. i think if my mum had taken me back then i would hav been alot better off than i am now x