I got a surprise email from someone I met several years ago who was divorced for 4 years but had not finished going through the grieving process. The email said that they were ready to move on and have a real relationship and wanted to catch up, renew our friendship and see where it goes. I have always liked this person and we both knew we couldn't go forward until this was complete. This person is smart, attractive and a joy to be around. We are getting together to catch up tomorrow night. I am very happy about this. And the kicker is...he is male! This shoukd be interesting. Wish me luck!