aimeesh... you are none of those things. I am so sorry you are being hurt by the immaturity of others. This is not about you. You deserve to be supported not made the butt of a joke. Your friend needs to grow up and get himself informed. We need to stick him in a room with a hundred women with PPD and lets through in a few with PMS and see if he can find his way out again. He is being a jerk and looking for an excuse to remain a boy. Sorry but seriously this is not about you it is about him.

The voice of depression is confusing you right now. Again this is not about you. You are going through a really hard time and your support is no support at all. I hope you can find someone to spend some time with today who can affirm you. I hope you can find the strength from within yourself to push the voice of depression and your friend away for a while and focus on your beauty. You are a mother of a beautiful baby and that is all that you need to be right now.

If I were your mother I would whopp that boy upside the head and scoop you out for a day at the spa and remind you that you are a beautiful sweet and lovely woman who has done the most amazing of things. You have given new life to the world and that new life is precious. Anyone who treats you with anything less than kindness needs to get an adjustment.

wishing you well and I really hope you can start to feel better.