I disagree that "supposed" to be together and self suficent. I think thats more our own faulty thinking then whats "supposed" to happen. Because of being vunrable in therapy, I am learning
To be like that in the rest of my life. I think until we begin to feel and understand what it is to be humaN/healthy, its us that make to much out of recieving help, its us that make to much out of words such as dependency and attachment. Just go with the flow and watch It happen naturally.