Hi Aimeesh –

I will try to resist criticising your boyfriends behaviour too much ONLY because I fear it might lead you to defend him,

But what I will say is that if he really cared for you, he would support you in everything you do – He’d be happy for you in your new job, your college course, your artwork and in getting that t-shirt design commission. He’d recognise you for the talented woman you are, and for the caring mother you are as well…….and he’d THANK HIS LUCKY STARS that he’s with you, rather than belittling you, hurting you in ways he knows how to best, and making you feel like **** just because he’s so inadequate and immature that that is what he needs to do to feel superior…..oh, sorry – Id said I’d try not to criticise…

These should be wonderful times for you Aimeesh what with some of the good things that have started happening for you lately….How much better would life be like if you didn’t have someone spoiling it all and trying to drag you down all the time?

You are equal to anyone

Hold onto what’s going well for you,

Matt C