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Originally Posted by Melbadaze
I disagree that "supposed" to be together and self suficent. I think thats more our own faulty thinking then whats "supposed" to happen. Because of being vunrable in therapy, I am learning
To be like that in the rest of my life. I think until we begin to feel and understand what it is to be humaN/healthy, its us that make to much out of recieving help, its us that make to much out of words such as dependency and attachment. Just go with the flow and watch It happen naturally.
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Maybe you're right about this. But for me, I know I surely can't go about in my daily life being as I do in my T's office. I mean, expressing my fears, shame, doubts, constantly looking for validation, and depending on my T to help me process trauma and restructure thoughts.
My family and my co-workers would think I had lost my mind if I was dependant and vulnerable with them in the same way I am with a T.
Well, maybe I have lost my mind....
