How did they know about it in order to reveal it? Was it information from your files that had been given to them by your therapist or doctor? If so, I think it was an error in confidentiality for facilitators to give out that information to a group without getting your permission. I would definitely not feel safe if facilitators had information about me they could reveal at will. I"m sorry you had such a rough time, fallenangel. I hope you can sort it out with the facilitators. If they don't seem to understand your concern, then maybe another group with different standards would be better.