[quote=googley;1266028]SAWE-
What is the Tres pass? quote]

at Christmas I gave my T a booklet of handmade coupons
one of them was The Tres Pass, which allows the bearer to enter into forbidden territory.
Just once.
She has told me she is going there next time we meet (tues) and my back muscles cramp up if I think about it, the shame is tremendous. I already feel like a bug on a pin.

I gave her those coupons because I know I need a push now and then, and apparently she thinks it's time, so I am Ok with trying it, but I am so scared.