I think it is misunderstanding. Down is saying there are other choices to get off drugs/alcohol that work just as well. Instead of hearing there are other choices people hear their choice is wrong and defend it as it worked great for them. Which in turn makes him defend his position as ferociously. Everyone then gets defensive and no one is really willing to have an open mind anymore. I dont think Down's intention is to say that for you personally 12 steps cant work cause it obviously does. I think his real intention is that for others who come here and for who it hasnt worked that there are other options and all hope is not lost. I think having options is almost always a good thing. If 12 steps doesnt work for them are you unwilling to let people hear about other options? This isnt a 12 step only substance abuse forum.