This thread is VERY interesting to me, and I'm glad it was revived. I'm interested in attachment, and since I also have BPD, how I got it. I was loved by my parents, so I always guess that's it's from being a preemie, or else maybe my mother was too anxious and I needed more.

Blue, I also have that feeling about the preverbal baby stuff fitting me. I wanted to be a baby with my T, but she didn't want me to. The "baby stuff" is always screaming inside of me, wanting to be heard.

I don't want a CBT T, but it seems like ftt is using other methods with you even though she has that orientation.

ECHOES, thanks for this thread.