Oh, I did not mention, near the end of the date he casually said he was moving to Philly soon for his job. I do not get men. I do not know how to respond to men. I did have a good time while he was here but my overall impression is to take a very fine lady, look her up on facebook, tell her you are ready for a real relationship, make a date to catch up, tell her you are moving to Philly soon, kiss her goodbye than leave. I do not understand heterosexual relationships at all I guess. What is my next move here because I am clueless. How can one be ready for a real relationship when he's moving to Philly?