I,m not talking about talking about fears etc, though with certain people I trust that is possible, and being vunrable and looking for validation goes on for most people in their daily lifes. As humanbeings most of us like validation and feel good when we're chatting and someone nods their heads in agreement with us. I think your thinking in extremes.

Being vunrable isn't about falling about on the floor and acting out, its about being who you are. It will happen, perhaps your early in therapy still?