Well, I have decided not to persue this with him because it makes not a dang bit of sense. I will keep him on my facebook, but other than that, no contact. I tried to go hetero but ya know, I am just not wired. At least I will have a clever response to all the homophobs who attack me verballx with their "you are going to hell" statements. I will just tell 'em "I was in hell, now I'm dating women again like the good lord intended." thanks for being here.