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Old Jan 24, 2010, 07:40 AM
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"Just do it" in my opinion is cheap advice.

how does one "just do it"?

It's not that simple.

I've had agoraphobia for years and "just going out" isn't the answer. I had to gradually take baby steps. Had to feel my feelings gradually not all at once.

then I could recover.

Billi
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