speaking for myself... I think I crave being figured out. To have someone care enough to want to figure me out. To love me anyways. I think somehow it would take away the loneliness. I feel more lonely when I am around other people, even just one other person than I do when I am alone.

At the same time the perfectionist me wouldn't feel satisfied they got anything right about me even if they took the time and made the effort to try to figure me out.