Rainbow - I think if there is someone that you feel you might connect with, you should at least call that person.

My T isn't a PhD (he has a two Masters degrees), but he is very experienced in the kinds of issues I'm dealing with, and his philosophy of "how we heal" lines up with mine. He is easy for me to connect with, and he is endlessly patient with me and my trust issues. When I saw him on the web during my T search I kind of "knew" he was the one for me.

Follow your gut, Rainbow... at least call.