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Old Jan 24, 2010, 04:49 PM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
A former T emailed me something about hugs, because I asked if she knew anyone for me who would give a hug if needed. She said I have to get hugs elsewhere, that it is wrong to give hugs to anyone with BPD because of my blurred boundaries. This was the T I attached securely with. Sigh...Maybe she's right.
That is so sad that any therapist would refuse to give a hug just because someone has BPD. Honestly, talk about black and white thinking! A hug, when appropriate, is so healing. Not everyone with BPD has blurred boundaries either.

Good luck in your search for another T. I hope you find someone who knows how to help with attachment.
Thanks for this!
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