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Originally Posted by bloom3
maybe some guys will respond and give us a clue into the male mind.
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Is there such a thing as the "male mind" (or the female mind, for that matter), or just males and females with various kinds of minds?
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you could ask him what's up with asking you out, getting all kissie face and then springing the move thing on you.
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I'm considering what he might have seen as
his options:
- Not ask Nucking out at all because he was planning to move soon and it could be frustrating if anything started to come of the relationship in the meantime?
- Ask Nucking out but warn her early on that he'd be moving soon so she should be careful not to fall in love with him or anything?
- Decide, based on how the date went, if he still wanted to go through with the move or cancel it to stay closer to Nucking?
- See if Nucking liked him well enough to ask him to stay (or to offer to move with him) and then reconsider his options?
- See if perchance the date would go badly enough so he wouldn't even have to mention he was moving, just feel better about shaking the dust of that town from his feet?
- (Pretty much what actually seems to have happened): see how they got along, then (since they apparently did) share about his job situation and see what either of them came up with in response.
The last one is the one I'm pretty sure I'd prefer, regardless of which of us was the one planning to move.