Rainbow- That is really strange about the remark about the hugs. Personally, that would mean to me that I needed a T who saw me as a person first before some diagnosis. BPD=No hug How ridiculous! And sad for the rigidness of a T who treats clients this way. Dt was like that. And....a red flag for me was that she referred to a pdoc for meds who was AWFUL. He reminded me of Jabba The Hut (spelling that right?).

Id make some calls to some T's after coming up with a list of priorities for a new T. The inner child work sounds like a good question, someone who goes deep, someone who works on attachment issues and uses the theraputic realtionship as a tool for healing.