Thanks Having a lawyer (as I do), doesn't really mean they will do the right thing by you, just so you know. Some attorney's, like mine for example, who was court assigned--really don't care that much at all, so it's sorta like being on your own. It's important to dispel the myths that having a lawyer means you'll have a better chance of turning out well-- the reality is that you take your chances.

I've been trying to find the time off work in order to make an appointment (not a court ordered one) with my T to talk about this and other things. I'm in a different city now, so it makes it a little challenging.

I need to talk to him about all the stress I have anyway, so a phone appointment is not adequate. Only thing I really hate now is that I have to pay out of pocket for any sessions with my T, as he doesn't take my new insurance. Ahh, the joys of the system we live in!