I put this thread specifically in this forum because I was very troubled at the time. Like I've said, I'm very comfortable with my beliefs and I respect this family member's beliefs as well. Sometimes in the heat of the moment something seems bigger perhaps than it actually is. The answer to this problem was really quite simple, just ignore this topic completely with this woman.

I found it very annoying and insulting that she did not extend me the same courtesy. I guess I'm still naive at heart, mind and soul. With so many shades of gray out there I cannot fathom being absolutely convinced that there is only one way to salvation, and that path MUST include being a member of a specific church. This makes no sense to me logically or spiritually.

In my youth I would have taken her on. I would have pointed out all of the rules of her own church (which I am very familiar with) that she breaks, and asked her point blank how she expects to convert someone when she so very clearly doesn't believe in many of their rituals herself. Age and experience have taught me that we believe the same thing ultimately, she's somehow able to reconcile in her own mind being a member of this church and not necessarily following the dogma to the letter.

To me spirituality is a personal thing. I'm more than happy to discuss it with you, but I cannot categorically state this is thee single, solitary path to salvation.