From what I comprehend, on the list of priorities in uoffl's boyfriend has a priority list: 1. Parents. 2. Medical school. 3. Friends. 4. Uoffl. Now Uoffl is doing her best to stay on this list. Of course this list will change...when her boyfriend graduates med school, internship will replace med school and then internship will be replaced with prabticing medicine. Now Uoffl here sounds like she is in the longhaul for this. Let us give her any and all the support we can.