I was wondering what people's experiences are during a rupture. My question is when does you t/pdoc realize that there is a rupture? Do you have to tell t/pdoc or do they know? I left last session feeling okay, and so I assume that she thinks everything is okay. But now I am upset about something that happened. I need to call my T and tell her that I may not be able to make it to session this week because I may need to travel for my grandfather's funeral (he is dieing). But I don't want to bring it up on the phone that I am angry with her and have been putting off the phone call all weekend. She knows that my grandpa is not doing well. Since I don't know how things are going to progress with my grandpa, I don't know how things are going to happen. Totally not connected but I also have to tell my professors about what is happening in case I have to miss class later this week or next week. I hate not being able to be specific. But there is nothing I can do about it.