I had another thread going about my issues with my 20 yr old son. I thought I had him out but he is back. Why is ist that I feel so guilty kicking him out. He has mad my life h*** for almost 5 years. I can't stand how he treats his girlfriend and how he lies to her. I got so upset tonight that I felt sick to my stomach. It makes my chest tight. My daughter is usually pretty good but when he is around, she tries to act like him. I really know I need to get strong and get him out but I don't want him to hate me forever. It's harder than divorce.