[quote=CJR520;1260613]I go with my husband to woodworking shows that he loves, to look at tools, etc. and always have. We do a lot together.

You say that you do a lot together. My Question for you is what do you do together that YOU want to do? You've written about things you do together that HE wants to do, but what do you do that YOU want to do?

Try finding some balance and get a life of your own. Either he joins you in activities that interest you, or you do those things on your own. You may find that getting a turn to do "your thing" is the best thing to reinvigorate your marriage.