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Originally Posted by kaihigdontog
how do you say good bye to some one without herting them? my gf has been verry good with puting up with my mood swings and my si but i can not put here throw any more how do i tell here good bye with out herting here any more?  |
Speaking from a woman's perspective, I don't know if there really is a way to do this without hurthing her. I am going through these same feelings with my husband but some points to think about. Is she supporting you through this bad time, maybe previous times? Does she still love you/care for you? Has she said she can't deal with it /or does she act like she can't deal with it?
I know all these answers can be answer in the way you believe she maybe behaving, but look at them from the reality and what you know is true about her. The first two should be yes and the 3rd should no. If you get any different answers on one of them, then I think you too need to talk. Maybe even see a T if that would help the two of you. Many options you can go with here without leaving here.
Take care and hang in there. You will get through this.