Thank you very much for that insight, kerria. I will give him the benefit of the doubt. I will be patient and wait for whenever he is ready to make contact.

The last couple of days have been difficult for him, and he is very tired. We talked briefly on the phone both days and I tell him I understand that he needs to rest or just be alone with his thoughts, and that I will wait to hear from him. Asking about the time question, and getting some answers has helped enormously in understanding why he will sometimes disappear.

I will be here for him, that's what I want him to know.

I am sorry to hear that you sometimes have problems keeping up communication with friends. Perhaps if you let them know that you lose time, they would be more compassionate and understanding.

Good luck on your journey.