first, he's showing you no respect by not responding and you are not being silly, your feelings and emotions are hurt and this guy is playing with them which is totally out of line. perhaps it's a good thing for him to fade into the background and disappear. It will hurt and you'll feel bad but in the long run this is best for you and you deserve so much more respect and caring from a man. Can you call a friend and go out to a movie and dinner to take your mind off things.