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Old Jan 25, 2010, 05:30 PM
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Originally Posted by msinfiniti View Post
I still have not heard from him. I've been crying all day. I've decided to go to a Co-dependants Anon meeting later tonight. I'm hoping that makes me feel a little better. Thanks for you thoughts. I really appreciate all the feedback.
crying is good for you....just relax and meditate and tell yourself this shall pass....
If you read my previous posts, you will find out how misrable I was over the guy called Aaron....but now I'm totally over him and don't care....imagine what has happned? I've seen him in my dance class on Saturday after four month and he was so sad, he told me that he got dumped by the girl that he dated after me.....I felt bad for him....but I thought all those bad things that he told me when we were going out and how much drama he caused me....and at the end he walked into the class with the other girl without caring about me....
if you believe in karma, you will understand this....whatever good or bad we are doing, it will come back to us either in this world or next.....
relax and know that tomorrow is a brand new day....today you feel sad, but tomorrow you feel a little bit better and each day you get better....
Now, I met another guy and he's such a good person.....it took me around 8 month to get over Aaron, but it will happen eventually.....
This guy that you are talking about is such a jerk.....I don't see a bright future for him....he will end up alone and sad....and don't worry about being 38....and that girl is 19....poor that girl, she's there just to entertain this guy??? how ugly is that?
meditate and forgive both of them....there is so much into forgiveness....you feel better....and try to not attach to anybody....
As a girl, when we sleep with a guy, we get so attach to him very quickly even the wrong ones, then we try to fix them!!!!
relax....you will be just fine....
just stay strong and don't answer his phone even.....
M.