Not so direct. I have said that I wish they wouldn't give me a 30 min lecture about buying a 4 dollar cup of coffee but not anything so detailed. I always have these elaborate speeches built up in my head and then when I get to talking I go blank. When I finally told my dad he wasn't claiming me on his taxes anymore because he hasn't helped me out for a long time my heart was pounding the whole time. I just hate confrontation. So I always WANT to stand up but never do because I don't want to start anything.