Jerry, you are right, he may snap. I wrote the thank you note to his inbox. I not only deleted him, I blocked him so that if he ever tries to pull me up, my facebook won't come up at all. I think he wrote that note saying he was ready for a real relationship was a manipulation. I think if I had let him, he would have picked up where he left off three years ago. I wish I was evil enough to pm his ex on facebook and tell her all the awful things about him. How did she put up with him? You know, I do not even care what he thinks. I am just am pissed he brought up my ex and dragged her sexuality through the mud. That hurts...I had blocked that out.