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Originally Posted by treehouse
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I am so happy to read about your secure feelings of attachment to ftt...you SO deserve someone like that to help you heal. It seems like the fact that you are so comfortable with her frees up your energy to really get to the core issues...how could you have ever done that with desk T painting her nails or whatever? Ftt seems like a perfect fit for where you are in your healing right now  |
I am so glad, too. I have never really trusted anyone in my life the way I trust her right now, so I wonder what this experience is. I am assuming it is secure attachment. I am so not used to this. I never get the feeling she is judging me, only understanding or trying to understand me to help me.
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I'm so sorry to hear about the terror you felt as a little girl. No one should have to feel that. 
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Thanks- it is a strange thing to remember. I dont connect it to feelings at all. I wonder if that is somewhere I will go in therapy or if I need to. I talk about it very matter of factly b/c I dont feel any terror and have no memory at all of why I was so terrified. But I remember being so incredibly frightened of big men who seemed like my father.
Thanks, Tree
Off to bed now.....
