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Jan 26, 2010, 06:35 AM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Just curious? You mentioned that you feel changing your name would give you some kind of closure and, it sounds like, justice as well...as you feel it could hurt your Mother.
I can fully understand the desire to change you name. I too have thought about changing mine. I still may in the future.
I'm just wondering if you think changing your name will make your Mother treat you any better than she does now....or if you're even planning on remaining in contact with her.
If she is the type of person to blame you for everything, she might very well attempt to use this name change as a way to make you feel guilty by telling you what a horrible person you would be.
You wouldn't be a horrible person of course, but I could see this happening.
Ultimately, it's your choice. Just thought I'd offer some food for thought. 
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