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Originally Posted by BlueMoon6
I still am not sure how to get past this. How to see myself as (I dont know what you would call it), a person who has more value than sex (but thats not quite right, I see myself as having more value than sex). Maybe more value than what somebody can take from me. I am not sure. Anybody with any insight here?
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So your parents always had ulterior motives when interacting with you. I can certainly see how that message would get really ingrained in your head. Our experiences really mold us. On the other hand, however, new experiences can mold us a different way. I think that we can use our old experiences, though, to continue to recreate our reality in its image. So being aware of what we are doing to recreate this is one thing that we can do so that we can create new and healthier reality.