Hi SO, you have such thought provoking posts! All that you said is so true. I do know what I like and want but getting access to it is the issue. Knowing what I like and need is just about one in the same. I like your suggestion. That would be a good exercise! Yes, I am pretty flexible with group decisions unless the choice is very important to me and then I won't budge. Same thing with my husband. I am pretty flexible with him because usually it doesn't matter unless I feel very strongly and then I won't budge. I probably don't get a lot of practice with choices because I do let my husband make a lot of decisions. I guess I should mention this to him. He is very good with things like this so it won't be any problem to discuss this with him. Good point that I don't get a lot of practice with this! Thank you SO!