Why do you feel that way, tryingtobeme? I noticed you dropped by the DBT chat today & were gone so soon. I sometimes feel like no one here really wants to read anything I post, either, b/c I have such low self-esteem, & b/c I tend to distort things when I'm very stressed out. I think you are going thru a bad time, for what reason I don't know, but maybe it will help you to reach out to us.