Years ago when I was looking for my first T, I got so incredibly frustrated because I kept getting told there was a long waiting list, or I would get an answering machine! Then I told myself I would call one more T, and this T answered her own phone! I knew she was the one because she was so kind on the phone, and while I was on the phone with her, my then 4 month old was crying in the background. She knew I was overwhelmed! And she could see me right away. She was my T for many years.