I had one of those a-ha moments yesterday. I have difficulty being with people that talk to much. I find myself feeling that ggggrrrr feeling. I think its the fear of being engulfed by someone elses issues, i resnt having to listen, unyet my fear of abandoment draws me to those that do talk to much..i'd not realised before that thats whats happening....its strange i've always seen myself more from the abandoment side thinking myself needy, and not seen the side of me thaT fears to much interaction...what a delemma...how does one find a balance?