I like somebody and since I met him I can't stop obssesing and beeing paranoid about him. I can't tell him how I feel about him as I think he won't take it seriously and I keep avoiding him even though he askes to meet up. Than I keep imagening that he has found somebody else or that I'v seen him some where with somebody and my head keeps replaying the sceenes over and over again. I can't sleep nor eat and it's making me ill. I clearly won't do anything as I keep avoiding him but as I live near its awful trying not to see anything. I clearly just don' want my heart broken. But the constant negative presumptions are driving me insane. How can I stop these thoughts and how do I explain to him that I do care for him and want to be friends but find it difficult since I like him more than that? Please I need proper advice as I'm really strugling to focus on the rest of my life. thank you