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Originally Posted by treehouse
She took a STRONG interest in me,
She talked about me to her guru.
She brought in her journal and read me pages of it.
I could let HER keep track of the boundaries.
She made me feel like there was something fundamentally wrong with me - like she had seen into my soul somehow, and decided she couldn't be around me anymore.
Honestly,I just want to take 5784395043587 pills. I don't do anger well at all. It feels way way way way way too scary for me.
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Those first four lines up there ^ are definitely boundary crossings. You were helping her with her work on herself. I can't imagine telling anyone that I will be in charge of their boundaries. Talk about disempowerment!
Please stay safe Tree!
Do you still feel like she left because something was wrong with you? She probably??? left because she felt unsafe with the blurred boundaries because these blurred boundaries are not good??? (Just speculation of course). This is what she created, however.