Tree- I agree with Sannah and Melba- it would kind of make me feel ashamed that I allowed this woman to get so close to me, to trust her, to allow HER to set the boundaries (uh, instead of allowing ME to learn how to set them).
Uh, yeah, you helped her work on herself! She blurred the boundaries by even suggesting you see her guru together, making any kind of suggestion that you leave your T, and then pulling back when it was more than she bargained for when you didnt want her to lead you around and make these kinds of suggestions- you just wanted to meditate.

I can understand how angry you were. Why did you get in contact with her in December?

Another suggestion...a no-send letter to her? Then a real letter? And maybe a one-way closure? YOU can set the boundary this time with a letter and a clear message that this is a one-way closure with her. You are not interested in working out her anger issues with her. Ftt suggested something like this with Dt and i may do it eventually.